It is from my experience that most women want a successful professional, who looks extremely handsome. Most women do value appearance a lot too. It is not only the men, who value appearance. Women too value appearance and income. I always tell my friends, who are men and women, that it is unrealistic to have both good appearance and good income.

Many women in Korea have good relationships with their fathers. They actually prefer to marry someone, who is like their fathers, but somehow looks like their older brother. I mean... How can a guy, who is near a woman's age, have the maturity of her father? Maybe, men are a contradiction as well. I do not know. For me, I am just an engineer and study a lot of math and physics. I hate reading literature and Korean dramas. Mr. James Lee's articles are not complete in describing everyone's frustrations. At the same time, I find most men to be wimps if they prefer a rich wife instead of good character. Whenever a man wants a rich wife, he is saying that he wanted to marry a husband. Do some men have some pride? Don't they have the confidence that they can make enough money to support his future wife? Is character at least more important than money? I understand that a guy likes a woman if she looks pretty, but to like her for her money is a little outrageous.