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Where is the love? Where is the innocence?[10]
by Bad British Gyopo (대한민국)  2011-07-01 01:18 공감(1) 반대(2)
I see that someone has posted negative remarks against me which were extremely distressing. But I do not wish to get into a mud-slinging fight with that party. She is eight years my junior and doesn′t know better.
I agree with her that I am not an English gentlemen. Three years of living in Korea has changed me. When I arrived here I was rather an idealist seeking a different, more humane career in teaching English to elementary kids in a provincial public school. Back home in England i was a ruthless businessman who has already built his fortune. Teaching was great at first and I loved the children dearly. I could feel a bond with them as if I could feel my roots growing with them and I thought I had found my calling as an public school teacher here in Korea. After ten months this dream was shattered. My principal asked me to join the interview panel to choose the next superintendent for the provincial region. He wanted me to back his horse because the principal had his own eyes for a position in the education ministry. I was appalled by this and chose the best candidate for the job. I had to resign my position.
As a gyopo I am saddened by Korean culture. It seems that most Korean women, money more than anything is important when choosing a partner. How big is your apartment?, What make is your car? Which area of Seoul do you live? Do you own a Iphone4, Ipad2? Buy her a Gucci bag or Louis Vuitton bag or Chanel one piece.
The last relationship has drained me considerably and I now realise there is a wide gulf between European and Korean mindsets.
I didn′t mean any harm to her and wanted to love her but the gap was unbridgeable............I wish her all the best. I only want to return to the greenness of my beloved Britannia.

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애플  2011-07-01 01:36:19
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I don′t know what happened between you and the girl.
No one knows for sure though I think I can appreciate how sad you are and you felt down..
But you know..some of Korean women do,but not all.
You′ll feel way better after a good night′s sleep :-)
hope you get to meet the good one for you sometime soon!
ㅎㅎ  2011-07-01 01:41:33
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내적인 면 보다는 외적인 걸 따지는 된장녀들이 많고, 그러한 문화적 분위기가 팽배하다보니, 자기 자신은 좀 그렇지 않더라도 심지가 완전히 굳지 않은 이상은 남들의 시선을 의식해서 남들이 따지는 재산, 차, 명품 등 외적으로 드러나는 것에 자기도 집착을 많이 하게 되지요 한국 여자들이.

오히려 자기 자신에 대해 자신감이 있고 자존감이 있으며, 외국에서 아이비리그 등에서 제대로 유학하고 돌아온 여자들은 외적인 것 보다는 남자의 자질, 내적인 세계에 더 많이 관심을 기울이고, 그런 면들이 맘에 들면 한국 된장녀들이 그 남자를 어떤 조건으로 어떻게 폄하하던 말던 자기의 호감을 이어가더군요.

한국여자들이 좀 질 떨어지는 면이 있는 것이 사실입니다..^^ 자기 스스로의 사고할 능력이 부족하고 남들의 시선을 많이 의식하니 남들의 판단 기준을 많이 참고하게 되고, 결국 말씀하신 외적인 요소들에 너무 집착을 하게 되는 듯 하네요.
애플  2011-07-01 02:01:41
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I know there are so many korean women who are driven by vanity and living in their own illusionary life outthere.
and yes, they are all so materialistic.
but! there are a lot of women who are very thoughtful with the right disposition.
Remember~ there is still a faint hope, at least I′m not a woman like that girl..and I have many friends
who have beautiful mind..
OMG..I have to goto bed right noooow!!!
그때 그 변태 영국 교포?  2011-07-01 07:12:39
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3년이나 있었는데 한국말 아직도 못하는거야? 영어나 제대로 하든지. 왠통 횡설수설에 허풍만 가득
에이;;  2011-07-01 07:50:48
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동성회원이잖아;;
곰같은남자  2011-07-01 08:34:07
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Please.. Does a word "Gold digger" means anything to you? It′s been like this all over the world for a quite of time. Just like Madonna once sang, "Living in a material world and I am a meterial girl".. well in our cases boys or men. LOL I don′t know if you are familiar with Korean economical history since the the Korean war, but things have been very hectic. There weren′t many wealthy people. Fxxx, there weren′t people who were able to feed themselves everyday until 60′s to 80′s. The difference between other EU countries, U.S. and Korea is that wealthy people in other place, they just live in their own world or dimension. In Korea, wealthy people like to show off with their flashy suits, watches, cars, etc and others respond! Girls want to see insides of so-called "super cars" and guys envy. I agree with you regarding people focusing too much on "what money can buy", but it has been like this, well, more than you′ve lived I assume. It′s a sad story indeed.
이성도..  2011-07-01 10:06:58
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셀프매칭보류라 안보입니다...공개의 의미가 없죠~ ㅋㅋ
dude  2011-07-01 11:50:05
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he is just complaining like many of us do.
여우비  2011-07-01 11:57:29
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기가막히는구나
마치 된장녀된기분?
마지막에 만난게 난지 아니면 딴여잔지는 모르지만 정신차리고
런던이 날씨가 흐려서 너의 성격이 횡설수설하는지도 모르겠지만
나한테 "우리부모님은 한국여자는 돈밖에 모르니 만나지 말라고 했다"면
여기서 기웃 거리지 말고 글말대로 질렸다면 영국가서 조용히 살아라
괜한사람 된장녀 만들지말고!



그래서 답이 모래요? 사랑이 런던이 있데요?  2011-07-01 12:43:36
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여긴 업데는거 아녀요?

Herjob~~~
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