A tug of war between success and failure in choosing a spouse.
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2025.03.05
Everyone considering marriage wants to find a good spouse. One of the most important things in choosing a good spouse is to have an eye for a good spouse. People with this ability tend to have a happier life than others who don’t. It is hard to find someone to meet for those who don’t have such ability.
A few years ago, there were two men looking for a spouse around the same time. Both were handsome, had good jobs, spoke well, and had cool personalities which usually makes them a popular style for women.
Between the two, I introduced a woman to Mr. A. He was taller and better looking than the other one. The woman I introduced him to was from a wealthy family and she had a good job after graduating from a prestigious university.
She was interested in him so things could have gone really well as long as he was on the same page. However, he was so picky about woman’s appearance at the time, he spoiled the whole by not being able to overcome his picky taste.
“It’s all good, but she is not pretty enough...”
“This year maybe the last year for you to meet a good spouse. You may be losing the opportunity to get married by passing over this chance”
Mr. A stayed firm with his decision in the end.
Then we introduced the woman to Mr. B. Mr. B was also disappointed with the woman's appearance, but he liked other aspects of her, so they continued dating and got married in the end.
The situation between Mr. A and Mr. B right now is like night and day. Mr. B has settled with his family and is doing well at his work as well.
Mr. A is still in contact with us, but he no longer has the confidence or intention to meet his spouse. As he wasted too much of his precious time, he lost his competitive edge in dating women. This is what most men should remind themselves about compromising.
Women can also face similar situations. The choice you make at such times can have a great impact on your life.
There are many things to be concerned about when meeting a spouse. Meeting someone I can be happy with requires a great effort, and at times, you need to play a tug of war with that person.
A tug of war between men and women is a psychological battle between the couple. It is quite necessary to learn about each other before getting married. Like learning the boundaries of each other, how much to give in etc.
The three main aspects men look for in women are appearance, family, and age. Sometimes, any one of these can be compromised. Women often look at men’s educational background, occupation, and height. Of course, any one of these needs can be compromised as well.
Being able to compromise makes a big difference. If you can’t compromise anything, you may end up facing a long lonely time.
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