In Korean matchmaking culture, matchmakers have traditionally asked very direct questions.
“Is this your first marriage?”
“Have you ever been married before?”
“Do you have a divorce history?”
In Korea, people who are seeking remarriage are sometimes referred to as “dolsing,” a common expression for divorced singles.
The reason K-Matching distinguishes between first marriage and remarriage is not simply to classify people.
It is to understand the possibility of a successful marriage and the stability of married life.
In traditional Korean matchmaking culture, divorce was once very rare.
Most people married once and stayed with the same spouse for 60 or 70 years.
Because of this, divorce was not as common or socially normalized as it is today, and divorced people were often viewed differently.
But as the era of free dating and personal choice expanded, marriage and divorce also changed.
More couples began to marry after dating freely, and divorce also became more common.
That is why modern marriage matching needs to look realistically at whether someone is entering a first marriage, a remarriage, whether there are children, and how previous marriage experience may affect a future relationship.
In K-Matching, distinguishing between first marriage and remarriage is not discrimination.
It is a process of understanding a person’s current situation more accurately and finding a partner who is truly compatible.
A person entering a first marriage may have different expectations and standards for marriage.
A person entering a remarriage may view relationships more realistically because of previous marriage experience.
If children are involved, there are even more factors to consider in choosing a spouse.
Therefore, K-Matching does not simply look at external conditions.
It looks at whether married life can realistically continue.
The important question is not who has better qualifications.
The real question is who can live well with whom.
Distinguishing between first marriage and remarriage is one of the standards used to understand that possibility more accurately.
K-Matching values marriage success, happiness in married life, and relationships that reduce the risk of divorce.
For this reason, the distinction between first marriage and remarriage in K-Matching is not just a profile item.
It is an important standard that reflects the reality of marriage.
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