
There is a 33-year-old woman. She has an eye-catching appearance, a stable career and financial strength, a father who is a public official, and a family with a long-standing reputation.
With these conditions, she would normally be considered a top-tier bride candidate. Very few men would turn her down.
But if this woman is a divorced mother with two children, the situation changes completely. How many men would be willing to remarry her?
A few months ago, I met her for the first time when she requested special management. She said everything related to her divorce had been settled, and because her children were still young, she wanted to raise them quickly in a stable family environment.
She was direct and confident. Before marriage, she had always received attention, and she said she had lived without much ever going against her wishes.
Even now, as a divorced woman with two children, her confidence had not changed. She seemed to believe that if she liked someone, remarriage would be easy.
I told her that most remarriage-minded men prefer women without children, so we should take our time and search carefully. She pushed back.
“People get divorced all the time these days. If someone was married for a few years and then separated, it’s normal to have one or two children,” she said, generalizing her own situation.
Her point was not entirely wrong. But many younger men prefer women without children, so it was necessary to approach the meetings carefully.
For now, we decided to proceed according to the conditions she wanted. We looked for men aged 35 to 40, either divorced men seeking remarriage or never-married men who were open to meeting a divorced woman. Among men who had graduated from prestigious universities and worked at large corporations, public enterprises, or similar stable organizations, we found about 100 candidates.
We sent them an email saying that there was a 33-year-old woman with top-level looks, a stable job, and a financially strong family background, but that she was divorced and raising two children. If they were willing to meet her, they could contact us.
Only four men said they were willing to meet her.
We have been arranging meetings with those men, but it has not been easy.
Once, the man declined. Another time, the woman declined. Another time, they actually met, but both said they did not feel a connection. Now, only one man remains.
There are more divorced singles now who, like this woman, have financial strength while raising children. Women who have lived with pride and confidence are finding themselves facing a wall of reality when they try to remarry while raising children.
In truth, if this woman is to remarry smoothly, the most likely possibility is someone she has known for a long time, someone with whom affection has naturally developed. The next best option is to leave the process entirely to an experienced couple manager.
Out of 100 men, only one now remains.
I hope this final meeting is handled carefully and leads to a good result.
