A 43-year-old businessman with billions of dollars in assets once went on a blind date.
Considering his age and personality, we introduced a 37-year-old lady who works in art industry. We got a phone call from the guy on the evening of the blind date which often means the date was either very good or terrible.
Unfortunately, it was the terrible case. He barged in before I could even finish saying “Hello.”
“Why on earth did you introduce me to a woman like that?”
“What do you mean by a woman like that?
“She is an old lady. She’s too old.”
I was about to say, ‘Look who’s talking? But I had to bite my tongue to hold back.
“There’s a 6-year age gap between you and the woman, even though most couples these days have much smaller age gap than 6 years. I recommended her to you since you wanted to meet someone with a wider age gap.”
“6 years is not much of an age gap!”
“Then how much of a difference did you think you had in mind?”
“At least over 10 years up to 15 years.” He said firmly.
I was speechless for a moment, but I started to understand where he is coming from as I talked to him a little more.
He said that he met a woman he really loved in his early 30s but broke up with her after being severely insulted by her father for lack of his capability. Since then, he worked hard to become successful and married a young, pretty woman, and he wanted to make that girl who broke up with him to regret dumping him.
He thinks that he was rejected because he was poor so since he made a lot of money now, he can marry whenever he wanted.
In cases like this man who focused so much on succeeding in his career and put off marriage tends to have a high expectation of their spouses to reward themselves for their hard work.
Another case is this family with two sons and four daughters.
The order of the children is son-daughter-daughter-daughter-daughter-son, but strangely enough, the two sons got married, but the four daughters did not get married even though they are in their early 30s and 40s already. Their parents sighed when they came in for some help for their 3rd and 4th youngest daughters who at least have potential to get married.
“I raised them well enough to be self-sufficient and they are, however, they have hard time finding the right person.
The first and second daughters went on arranged dates few times and got into a relationship several times however none of it turned out good, so they gave up and the parents got used to their daughters getting married late, and that’s how it has gotten to this point.
Another thing is the four sisters are very tight with each other which made them feel very content so none of them felt the need of marriage.
Initially, I was excited to know that they have 4 daughters who are not married yet however, after listening to their story, I am thinking I hope I can help at least one of them get married.
It might have been easier help them out if the relationship between the sisters weren’t so tight or sometimes sisters can be competitive against each other will actually make it easier to find someone,
If you are over certain age and not married, there must be a reason. My job is to help you figure out the reason so I can provide a matchmaking service that fits just for you.
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