K-Matching Column

Mr. A in his mid 30s, recently met a lady through an arranged date. He met with her twice then he had to go on a 3-month long business trip to South America. Since he was leaving not long after he met her, his feelings for her seemed to be cooling down a bit.

Before his departure to South America, he met with her to say goodbye then she treated him to dinner and even gave him multi-vitamins.

He was thinking that he wouldn’t see her again, but he stayed in contact with her as he was taking the vitamins he received from her, and they are still seeing each other now after he came back from his business trip. Her kindness and consideration linked them together.    
Excessive kindness can be overwhelming, ingenuine consideration is worse than not doing anything but genuine consideration about others often truly impresses people and could fire up a relationship.

So even if the profile of someone isn’t that great, his kindness and manner can be enough to make a good relationship. 
Kindness and manners are very important factors in dating. 
A global matching platform Couple.net has conducted a survey against 1 thousand singles about ‘the best person to date’.

For male singles, the number one was kind and well-mannered women.  Number 2 was a woman who they can communicate well with, number 3 was a woman who is honest.
Mr. B in his late 30s, met a lady who had been married before.  She was very honest about herself and told him why she got divorced, and her current condition which made him feel like she was more trustworthy. Instead of being fake or pretending to look good, being honest gives trust. 

Number one pick for the best person to date for women was a kind and well-mannered man as well.  A man who plans a full schedule for a date, prepare a gift with thoughts and care etc.

Number 2 was a man with a good personality, number 3 was a man who they can communicate with.   
There are many differences in how men and women think, but when it comes to find the best person to date, they coincided to a person who is kind and well-mannered and can communicate well with.